Tuesday, May 1, 2012

The Infamous Ryan O'Neal of "Love Story" Fame

Inspiration: To continue to honor and bless every person and situation with compassion.:-)

Celebrities. At one time of another, many tend to write a book about their life. Ryan O'Neal can now be added to that list. He is the father of infamous child actress Tatum O'Neal and life partner of divine "angel" Farah Fawcett (who has passed over).

This past Monday evening, he was giving a talk and book signing for his new book "Both of Us". An account of his life with the beautiful Farah. So at nearly 7pm, I make my way into Barnes and Noble at 82nd and Broadway in NYC. I thought it would be nice to get a signed autographed copy of this book for my mom . I was thinking (assuming he was) of asking him to write "for Beverly." So I quickly purchase the book and rush upstairs; since it had already started.

To my complete surprise, I hear no speaker and cameras flashing. Then I am told he wasn't speaking and only signing. I was quite agitated, because for almost $30 bucks, I was expecting a brief (at least) reading. I then see line forming and I proceed to go over.  I chat briefly with a couple of fellows waiting as well. Here are the brief dialogues.

Denise: " I thought he was going to speak?"
Guy 1 :" You know celebrities; they are too good for that."
Denise: "OK, I am a bit disappointed but am not going to judge."

Guy 2 : " He has stage two prostrate cancer and even cancelled his talk this am on the Today Show."
Denise:  " Oh, so sorry to hear that."

While waiting online with guy 2, he told me he attended high school with Farah. He was a warm, inviting, happy man that exuded a sense of real compassion and patience. A sense of peace radiated in every fiber of his being...

So now, it's my turn...He signs the book, Ryan O'Neal. What happened to "Your name?" Anyways, he looked much, much older and weathered. His "soul", spirit, felt drained to me. I had compassion for him. After he signed, I shook his hand and uttered these words; " May peace be with you." I then left the bookstore and made my way back home.

The gift I leave you with is that you never really know the story. Many of us tend to be quick to judge. At the core, we are all doing the best we can in each moment...May our hearts grow as we continue to honor the deep self with love and compassionate action.

Have a "wonderful" day.

With Love, Denise


Sunday, April 29, 2012

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Greetings:

Each month,  I create an inspirational and healing message. If you are interested in receiving these, please email me and I will add you to the subscription. Wishing you all a blessed journey into wholeness.

With Love, Denise

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Who Would I Be Without the Story?

Inspiration: Just let go of the old stories we tell ourselves


Everyone has a story...This happened, that happened. I can, I can't ...blah, blah, blah. S--T happens. We have all been dealt some pretty crappy cards. Then again, we have also been blessed. :-)

There are stories we tell ourselves about our past, stories we project onto our future. These stories (mostly subconscious) create the flow and trajectory of our daily life. As an example, If you were deeply wounded in a past relationship, your heart carries an appendage. This keeps you safe, and guarded, from not letting anyone ever hurt you again. This also cuts you off from feeling the fullness of your heart.
 
You may believe,deeply, that you desire union with another. However, there is a underlying core belief that "I never want to hurt again". If you can just allow yourself to FEEL the longing, the loss, your heart will burst OPEN and heal. Once this occurs, you are ready to open yourself completely. When you truly love yourself, with your beauty and flaws and acceptance that this has happened, (hugging your heart), you then create the energetic space for that which you desire.

This can apply to anything. Any situation at all. Let's all let go of our stories and create some new AMAZING ones. As Steven Tyler of Aerosmith fame sings in the song  Amazing; " with the blink of an eye you finally see the light, when the moment arrives, you know you'll be alright" ! Let the divine spark shine from within. Let go of that which no longer serves and invite in new and exciting experiences.

Think about it, and have a wonderful day.


With Love, Denise

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Sometimes "the SOUL" just knows

Inspiration: To continue to honor others paths.

A good friend of mine whom I had lost contact with came up in conversation today with a client. Actually we both met one another over a decade ago via this person. We had both received an email around Purim ( a Jewish holiday) saying a donation was made on our behalf. I thought this may have been crap mail, but since my client received the same one, I believed it was authentic.

We spoke highly about our friendship with this individual and how it would be nice to reconnect. Then I casually mentioned, ":It's interesting that this friend converted to Judiasm via a previous marriage and actually turned out to really be JEWISH!!!For years, she tried her best to turn me on to this religion, and I explored for a bit, but ultimately said, not interested.

Anyway, this friend of ours was adopted at birth. A few years ago she found her birth mother. To both our surprise, her real mother was Jewish. She always expressed such a deep connection to Judiasm beyond what I had ever seen. She was, is, so dedicated to it's teachings and esoterics in a "beautiful' way. In my naivety, I couldn't understand this (young and egocentric) but now that I am learning on so many levels, I truly understand.

The SOUL, the deepest essence of our being truly knows. If we could all just tap into our core essence and truly listen, answers to our yearnings and dreams would make perfect sense. I invite you all to tune in, to the longings and questions of your heart. If you are still and open, you will hear the answers in divine right time.

Have a "wonderful" nite.

With Love, Denise

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Finding "M"'s...

Inspiration: To continue to listen to "SPIRITS" musings and messages :-)

For almost six months now, I have been finding colored coin-like metal with a scripted M on top. At first I thought my karmic soul friend was communicating with me on the astral plane (well maybe that too) but then I soon realized they were from the Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Granted, for some years now I have asked to invite more culture, art, creativity into my life. Two of my clients are art dealers and another heads up movie acquisitions at Sony. So between both, I feel a bit like a beginner. So finally, last Tuesday (not the best day to go btw), I make my way across the park to 82nd and 5th Avenue. I was so proud of myself for going there after living in NYC for 20 years.

So I make my way inside, a long line to check coats. Afterwards, I proceed to go in with a map that was useless to me; since I am not so great with directions...I start off visiting the COE Collection of American Indian Art. I am soooo drawn to Native American culture and feel in another life I was an Indian (or many).;-)
Anyway, I instantly fell in "love" with the artifacts and clothing. Where can I go and get me some???

Then, I made my way to see Picasso and Matisse (since I heard of them) and really enjoyed what I saw. After,  I made it to see whatever else was there. I think I may have been there an hours time. That was all I could do since I was alone and was new to this whole thing. As I was going to pick up my coat, I asked two lovely, elderly women how long it should take to view the exhibits. Their response was; "DAYS"!!! Oh, well. You gotta start somewhere right? I think next time I will go with a friend.:-)

With this experience, I will continue to explore, open up, and see what this fabulous city has to offer !!! What have you been yearning to explore? Think about it and have a wonderful day...

With Love, Denise

Monday, March 5, 2012

The Mysterious Cross

Inspiration: To continue to believe in "divine" magic. :-)

Magic, unexpected, instantaneous happenings (synchronicities) whatever you like to call it. This one was the "right in your face" kind, in the form of a large wooden cross. Let me explain.

Over a week ago, I had a really "cool" experience at a local wireless store. I met a pretty prominent music, singer-songwriter-producer. Let's just say he is really close with Steven Tyler.:-) Anyway, me and this music guy talked for a long while about life, music, L.A vs NYC ( since he is bicoastal) and life in general. It was one of those really AWESOME moments !!!

One of my ongoing prayers has been to meet and connect with more creative people. I was wondering when, or if I may hear from him again (we exchanged info). So here I am, after doing some devotion yesterday afternoon in an empty church ( I am born Jewish but like to light candles) not more than two minutes after walking down the street, I see this ENORMOUS wooden cross a girl was holding. Directly behind her was him, the music guy (she was with him) !!! He seemed rushed but we managed to have a quick exchange. Really cool huh?

I share this with you now for inspiration; our thoughts and intentions do manifest into physical form. This was "instantaneous" and I was like blown away!...Not because of the encounter, perse, but because of the ooh - aah of God, Spirit or whatever you like to call the invisible realm. Think about it ...Believe in the power of something bigger than you can ever imagine !

Have a good nite.
With Love, Denise

Thursday, March 1, 2012

On Change

Inspiration: To continue to allow the "wind of change" to move me and not scare me. :-)

It has been some time since my last posting. Actually, this is my first one since this new year began. So much has happened around me. Mostly, the interior world I know is expanding and shifting in amazing and sometimes scary ways.  I am hearing things on a deeper level. Seeing how the divine weaves her magic in the ordinary and the mundane.

At the end of last year, I took a much needed break to explore. I ventured out to sunny L.A. This experience was a roller coaster in many ways...In hindsight, it has been a great blessing. I now see clearly who I am, who I am becoming and where my path lies. At the core, I am a spiritual teacher/healer. To those that know me intimately, they know this about me (well most anyway). In my working life I am known more for my yogic approach to living and movement. This also encompasses my work in the fitness arena.

Slowly, without fear, I am embracing the new Denise that has waited a lifetime to be "seen" to be heard. As I approach my 46th birthday next month, I look forward to this next phase;opening myself up more fully on every level. I share this with you now, because there is never a better moment to start than the present.

Who do you wish to be, do, if you didn't feel limited by the confines of linear thinking? If you gave yourself permission to shine... To shine your light and experience the fullness of who you are. What would that feel like? As we continue to let go of the old and create space for the NEW, magic and miracles abound. Marinate in the feeling of what is possible. You were meant to shine that beautiful, inner light of yours...

Have a "wonderful" evening.

With Love, Denise